It's impossible once we connect with a person on every level. After all we are of the same kind i.e human. Connecting and expecting are mutual, also the main cause of rise or fall of any relationship. While being a child we learn good things but as we grow-up, we have to change our ideology of the good. And understand the realities of life while choosing what and in which way we want to live. Maximum everyone chooses unconsciously in our early stages of life believing with a zeal of conditiond never changing. Thinking with an open heart and mind is I guess what was called the utter-truth or gyaan by our ancestors. The first step in any relationship is to maintain one's own gyaan and accepting the other as they are, which in many cases is quite difficult. Relax don't forget other chours and relationships in making just one relationship a success. Any relationship is built upon few basic rules but most important is communication. If you have problems with sibling or parents just try and say what's in your mind, let them know the other side of coin. At last the only worst thing will be mot having the relationship in life which is much less painful than any regrets. So speak, communicate, listen, understand instead of jumping to the conclusion. Remember listen to your own self also before you speak, being clear as what you are addressing will be an upper hand. Try with a relaxed and clear mind.
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